- By dropping any emotional hurt or baggage with the understanding that it blocks our prospects for healthy and happy relationships.
- By not trying to change people but changing the self in ways that one’s peace and happiness is no longer dependent on how others behave or how they are.
- By making the necessary effort to grow
- By not trying to know what the future holds. Not banking on predictions but by taking charge of one’s affairs and continuing to give our best energy and effort to them.
- By understanding that the purpose of all life is growth